Family Law Solicitors

Polyamorous Relationships

Vanessa Friend
Vanessa Friend
Partner
Phoebe Hill
Phoebe Hill
Partner
Raj Bhattoa
Raj Bhattoa
Partner
Sarah Norma-Scott
Sarah Norman-Scott
Partner
Hannah Yellop
Hannah Yellop
Associate
Jessica Wells
Jessica Wells
Paralegal
Lauren Viegas
Lauren Viegas
Paralegal
Rebecca Coates
Rebecca Coates
Senior Associate

Polyamorous relationships and/or throuples have been increasing in the UK, particularly in the last 10 years. These relationships often involve complex legal issues.

Polyamorous relationships encompass any consensual non-monogamous relationship. Every relationship will look and feel different and the issues will be unique, and fact-specific.

As with any type of relationship, sometimes things don’t work out. We offer compassionate and professional support on all aspects of family law, including separation, child arrangements and cohabitation matters and will handle every enquiry with sensitivity and openness during what may be a very difficult personal circumstance.

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We offer clear, concise and personalised advice to help you achieve a successful outcome from family solicitors near you. Whatever your situation, our team can draw on over 45 years of experience to offer tailored advice. Some of the issues we can advise on include:

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Our family law team advises on all legal issues relating to civil partnerships. Whether you need to draft a pre-civil-partnership agreement or if you are seeking advice on wills or dealing with dissolution and its outcomes, we know how to help.

Divorce & Separation

We have a team of leading family solicitors in London, renowned for their compassionate nature when dealing with relationship breakdown and divorce. We’ll work closely with you to make sure the process is straightforward.

Financial Provision

There are many ways of reaching divorce finance settlements. With us, these include solicitor-led negotiations, round-table meetings and alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation and arbitration. Whichever route you take, our experienced family lawyers aim to help you reach a financial settlement with minimal stress and expense.

Cohabitation

Our family law team provides expert advice on disputes involving property ownership whether you are dealing with a disagreement between co-owners or seeking to establish an interest in someone else’s property our experienced family law team is here to help.

Premarital & Cohabitation Agreements

Our specialist family lawyers have been helping our clients for over 45 years. Drafting pre-nuptial and cohabitation agreements is an area of expertise; we’re here to ensure no important detail is missed.

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It is always best if parents can reach an agreement on arrangements for their children, on their own terms. However, we understand that this isn’t always possible. With the help of our family law solicitors near you, we can draft a parenting plan together. We’ll make sure that you reach a solution through mediation, arbitration and roundtable meetings if necessary.

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What is the legal status of a polyamorous relationship?

A polyamorous relationship can take many forms. Typically it has 3 or more consenting people (with a relationship consisting of three people being nicknamed a ‘throuple’). The law in England & Wales currently defines a legal marriage/civil partnership as between two people over the age of 18. The law therefore prohibits any relationship with multiple partners (and is actually a criminal offence called bigamy). Therefore, polyamorous relationships currently have no legal status in England and Wales.

The legal status of the people involved of course depends on the individual circumstances. It may involve a married couple, or civil partners, with the addition of other partners (who are not in the marriage or civil partnership) or all partners could be unmarried. It should be noted that where there is a mix of married/civil partnered and unmarried partners, the unmarried partners are far more vulnerable than the married/civil partners as their claims are limited to property ownership pursuant to TOLATA 1996 or if there are children then there may be a claim for financial provision on behalf of a child under Schedule 1 of the Children Act 1989. There is also additional provision if the partners are engaged.

It is important to understand your rights in a polyamorous relationship as they may not be the same as the other partners, even if you share financial assets, responsibilities and childcare responsibilities. Please click through the various topics above to understand the legal status of your particular relationship format.

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What happens if a polyamorous relationship breakdown?

As above, it depends on the legal status of the relationship in the first place. The law in England & Wales currently defines a legal marriage/civil partnership as between two people over the age of 18; therefore you may fall into one of the following two categories as a partner in a polyamorous relationship and this can determine what legal options/routes may be applicable to you:

  1. If you are married or in a civil partnership with a primary partner, and the relationship breaks down you will need to consider either divorce or dissolution of the civil partnership and the associated financial issues. See more – divorce & dissolution and financial remedy sub-pages
  2. If you’re in a polyamorous relationship and (a) not married or in a civil partnership or (b) you’re the non-married partner for example in a throuple, divorce/dissolution won’t applicable and the laws equivalent to ‘cohabitees’ are more likely to apply. See more – cohabiting couples & unmarried families sub-pages

If there are children of the family, and you’re not certain of your rights following the breakdown of a polyamorous relationship please do not hesitate to get in touch whether or not you are a biological parent. The law in this area is complex and it would be beneficial to talk it through with one of our solicitors.

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How can I protect myself in a polyamorous relationship?

As with any relationship communication is key and there are important issues that can be discussed with your partners during your relationship to alleviate concerns if there are difficulties in the future, such as:

  • Do we have sufficient life insurance cover and/or critical illness cover to ensure each partner and/or child of the family is taken care of in the event the worst happens?
  • Is everyone’s Will up to date?
  • Do we have a parenting plan that reflects everyone’s parental role?
  • Do we need to apply for parental responsibility for any non-biological parents?
  • Do we need to discuss arrangements for our family home, or any other property?
  • Do we need to discuss the financial arrangements for each partner in the event of a relationship breakdown and enter into a cohabitation agreement to ensure that the non-married partners’ rights are protected
  • Do we need to enter into a prenuptial agreement or postnuptial agreement to deal with the finances for the married/civilly partnered partners?
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